our internal self-image controls: •What we do, and what we don't do •Where we go •Where we live •Who we end up getting in relationships with and how those relationships go •What we do for a living •How much money we make •How far we move up the business ladder •Whether we own a business or work for others •How much we weigh – and what kind of physical shape we're in •How often we have sexual relationships and the quality of them •How well we do at sports •Whether we play musical instruments •How well we perform at school •The state of our health •How we dress — what our personal appearance looks lik