Reframing: Reframing is an NLP technique that can help you to see the situation from a different point of view that is more positive than your current view. One way to positively look at failure is to consider it a feedback.
If you failed to open a door with the red key then this doesn't mean that the door can't be opened but it might mean that you have to try using the yellow key instead of crying beside the door. Failure is just a message telling you that you have to try doing the same thing in a different way and nothing more. There are several posts on blog that go into this further.
Take calculated risks: Some people take risks without making calculations and when everything collapses they end up being afraid to try again. By taking calculated risks you will make sure that you are ready to face the worst and so your fear of failure will be minimal.
Change your beliefs about failure: Every successful person around you have failed many times before he reached that place. Ask any successful person how he succeeded and you will find that the only difference between those who succeed and those who didn't is that the first group kept going on even if they were failing.
Build your self-confidence: I really got bored of typing the same words again in every article because for every problem I write about I find that self-confidence can either improve it or make it worse. Building self-confidence can dramatically reduce your fear of failure
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