bad relationships

bad relationships are the product of one or both of the people involved being ill-equipped to give the relationship what it requires--CONCERTED, CONSISTENT, EFFORT. In order to avoid this situation, ask DILIGENT questions about the future of the relationship, and if they say that they are not interested...BELIEVE THEM! More to come on this. The beginning of a relationship is the perfect time to ask hard questions and to find out the most about a person. After all, you are just having conversations, you are not a couple, and this time of informal communication, is a great opportunity to ask questions with minimal risk.